I'm Bored. Are you bored?! LOL

What's up, everyone? Anything interesting going on in your world? It's been pretty normal and uneventful here in Beantown!  I'm fully rested, getting 8+ hours sleep a night and ...

KIDDING. I gotta laugh. Take away my fun and you take away my sanity.

Before I get started, here's a breath of fresh air to make me smile and give me the feels...as well as a couple non-disaster news items! 

Brooklynn telling MiMi she's tired of the Paparazzi

Prince providing some much needed cuddle time

Last weekend was the end of the first week of Daniel's new job. We both love it already. More time together being the best perk but all the other stuff is great, too. I don't want to be too crass and talk about money but... more money. Which, given the current stress of life, helps a lot.

Somewhere in the last week, Sean McClelland got all dressed up and attended his Junior Prom with a really cute girl who wore a dress I'm jealous she can make look that good. Va Va Voom! Keeping a promise they made years ago, Leigh and Courtney let Sean drive the convertible BMW Z that night. I have pics she sent me and man, I feel old...but proud and happy.

Okay, I'm ready now. Here's the low-down on what happened, what I was and am doing, etc... And please know I haven't really processed this yet. I haven't had time. I have support from Daniel and work and and friends and local family...and yes, I have a good therapist up here. He's going to have fun with me next Monday.

And... here we go ...

Monday, April 15th, 2013: Boston Marathon

(and tax day but hey, way to bury the lead, Uncle Sam)

[this is lengthy but cathartic]

I was asked if I wanted to do PA for ARC Communications with Shawna by going to a station (at mile markers) to tweet and take pictures of some of the 40 Team Red Cross Marathon runners. I declined because 1. I had a doctor's appointment & didn't want to brave the foot traffic to get there late and 2. I just wasn't "feeling it." I can't tell you why. I don't know why. I wasn't going to be at the finish or anything but yes, this being my first Marathon in Boston, I probably would have tried to be down there at some point just for my own satisfaction.

All morning I was tracking the runners' progress. The Boston Athletic Association (they are the ones who put on the Marathon) has a great website where you can see where the runners stand at each 5K point. I was particularly interested in our team, and Jarrett...and there was a Dade City woman in there, too (Vera something or other). I was re-tweeting our PA people with status reports and very excited as each runner hit the 1/2 way point and then the finish line. 

Allistair had the live coverage on the projector tv in our boardroom so some of us took breaks and went in there to watch the "elite" runners finish. The men and women didn't break any records but man, it was exciting. I think I could do a 5K but 26.2 miles? No way! I went back to my desk and was continuing my "stuff." Shawna and Bob and Kelly all were back in the office after doing all their PA stuff and we were all just having an "easy" day following everyone. 

I was so excited tracking Jarret. He had gotten past the 40K point and his miles/minute were under 14.4. Vera finished. Ben Barr finished (I think that's him...Andrea Madill was particularly interested in him so I was posting for her). A lot of Team Red Crossers finished. It was pretty cool. I was loving it.

Then: One of my co-workers said there were reports of an explosion at the finish line. We all ran to the boardroom to watch on tv. By that time the second explosion (at that time we didn't know to say, "bomb") happened. I immediately called Mom to let her know I was okay and to spread the word. 

Welcome to DR 178-13

(Disaster Response Number)

I went back to my desk to refresh the results so I could see where Jarrett was. Bob came around the corner and said the DOC (Disaster Operations Center) was opened and it was, "All Hands on Deck." From that point in the day, it was a blur. I was helping staffing and answering the "fire line." That's the line where we get calls of people who need our help and when the fire departments call us to let us know there is an indecent and we're needed. 

Things got real at about 7pm when Lily and Leighton and Bob pulled me aside and asked how comfortable I'd be as a liaison to ARC and The City of Boston's call center. They needed someone there to give info on our, "Safe and Well" program/site. I said I'd get comfy with it quickly. Please understand that this was only 4 hours into this so I wasn't even thinking about safety or anything that YOU might have been at that point. I was very excited that I was given this task and that Senior Leadership trusted me with it. I'm not staff. I'm a volunteer with AmeriCorps assigned to an 11 month contract working with Youth Programs. I was honored that this was asked of me.

There were some logistical issues and waiting so I was in the DOC hanging out observing. Jarrett showed up. Let me take a minute to say some things here about what that means (to me and what it SHOULD mean to everyone else):

This man, who you all know I admire and respect, ran TWENTY FIVE POINT SEVEN ( maybe point eight?) miles of a 26.2 mile marathon. Think about that and where he was to the finish line and the explosion. Then think about how close he was to finishing a grueling task he'd never attempted before. Then go ahead and think about how his two sons were somewhere at the finish with his assistant, Jeanne and how frantic he must have been worrying about the three of them. Now...look at this picture I took some time before 8pm the night of the Marathon.

Jarrett Barrios, CEO of ARCEM...In the DOC

Yes, he was in the doc, in his running clothes, doing his job. This is why it's not difficult to get up in the morning and go in to do this "job" every day when you're tired. If he can do it after all of that, so can I. This is why he inspires respect and loyalty.

To continue:

I got a ride to City Hall from one of our volunteers and I did what I was asked to do. I was a representative of ARC with the City for about an hour before they opened up the castle (point place for assistance). I took this pic b/c I wasn't thinking of danger or what was going on. I was happy I had a purpose and that I was helping my team. Please don't think it was uncaring or anything. I was just wrapped up in what I was asked to do and happy I could make them proud they asked me to do it. 

When I got to City Hall, it was a scene straight out of an action movie. There were police everywhere. One of them offered to escort me inside and help me get where I needed to be. They were very nice. I think it helped they saw my ARC credentials and jacket. I was searched and everything. Strange. I found my contact person and did what I needed to do. 

Now, I don't know where you guys were on 9/11/01 but unless you experienced that in a "city," you may not understand this part. At this point, we didn't know who, what or why. Police of all levels were EVERYWHERE. The T was running and it was guarded; as in AK47 military/police guarded. Downtown Crossing (where a lot of the lines intersect and you change trains) was reopened by 10 when I left. I had a police escort inside but then I had to take it by myself ... that was not a fun experience emotionally.  Natalie was going to come get me but by the time she braved the traffic, it would have been over an hour of me waiting. I jumped the T and rode it to my stop. She picked me up there and drove me home so I didn't have to wait for a bus outside then walk the 1/2 mile from the bus stop. I was grateful. Very.

Tuesday through Thursday, I did staffing. I checked in local and nationally deployed volunteers, issued them staff credit cards and out processed them. 8am-6pm those days it was DR 178-13 all day, every day. Most of our disaster response is providing disaster mental health workers...and the support that comes with that: case workers and drivers and people to provide water and snacks to responders. It's very detailed and interesting stuff.

Thursday, Daniel was here and we went to dinner. I woke up at 3am on Friday b/c my cell phone was vibrating non-stop with CNN, Twitter and WCVB Boston updates. This is obviously when all the stuff with the bombers went down. They did their thing and shut down the entire city. Literally the entire city. Long story short, after the T was shut down and taxi service was suspended, Alex came to get me in an ARC car so I could get to Cambridge and work. Eerie doesn't begin to describe driving down Mass Ave and seeing 4 police officers on every corner and MBTA Police at the entrances to each T Stop. *shudder*

Anyway, the rest is a blur of working and making sure things got done. When you are deployed or are assigned to a DR, you have to have at least a day off every 7 days. I took Sunday and did laundry. Exciting, I know. LOL. 

There have been moments when I am just amazed at people's resilience and generosity. ARC has some great supporters because companies have been donating food to the volunteers most days (we got Olive Garden two days in a row...and Panera and Dunkin Donuts have been steady in their support of us). We got Red Sox tickets and massages in the office..and ice cream and cupcakes and cookies. It's insane the level of support that exists in this city.

Anyway, that's where we are now. We are trying to ramp it down but there are still vigils and memorials and funerals where we are needed for the support we provide. This is tiring and exhausting but extremely rewarding work. I don't know if I could go out and do what our volunteers do. I know my strengths and they lie in office work and organization and support. I feel appreciated and needed so that's good. Stress is high but I am working with some great people. Our regular team is together and we work well with each other. We are friendly and comfortable with each other and humor is key in our relationships.  That helps a lot.

As a side note: our Disaster Mental Health volunteers are constantly checking on us, too. They talk to us in the elevator and come to our work stations and get a feel for how we're doing. They make sure we're eating and hydrated and taking breaks to get away from the stress. It's very comforting.

You know what else helps a lot? The support from family and friends I received. I got phone calls and emails and messages from tons of people. Hell, I got a message from someone I hadn't really spoken to in 10 years. It means a lot. So thank YOU!

I know this was long but I have to tell you, it felt good getting it out. Thanks for indulging me. 

Everyone be safe and well. I'm going to bed. I have to be at work by 7am.

Much Love, Jini

PS: If you're not watching The Khaleesi kick ass on Game of Thrones, you are missing out!

 

'Sup?

What's up, everyone? Sorry I haven't blogged in awhile. Life is happening and well, no excuses. Sorry. 

Let's see...work is good. 

Lots of changes happening. Some of these are just now happening from the new Senior Team (Q1 2012). They've eliminated a senior level position and are creating a lower level one to "replace" it.  Budget for FY 14 is in the "let's get ready to do this" stage. FY14 starts July 1st. It's all "run around and figure this out" time here. 

Quarterly All Staff Meeting - Jarrett

 There is technically a hiring freeze still in effect. I think an exception is being made for the above position in light of the trade off in salary level. The Corporate Event Planner quit last week with no notice so Financial Development is in a bind ... big time. They can't replace her.

I've been doing a lot of CDE (education) and outreach (health & safety fairs) lately. This is what I was supposed to be doing exclusively (according to AmeriCorps). However, I am full-of-awesome so I've been helping with other stuff like event planning (yay!) and club management. None of what I just said was a complaint. I like it to be mixed up.

 

Beechwood Knoll Health & Safety Fair

I've been helping Bob with some event planning stuff in our department. We have zero budget but have to plan the Volunteer Appreciation Banquet for June. Right up my alley. It's been fun..and interesting. Stay tuned.

Our Middle School Club on The Cape won their State Destination Imagination competition. Alex and I traveled over to Worcester to support them. They were so awesome. We are so proud of them. They get to go to Knoxville for the World Competition in May. They are heavy duty fundraising right now. We're putting feelers out for corporate sponsors. National Red Cross was impressed and are promoting us.

Me with the CCLCS Destination Imagination Team at the State Competition in Worcester

We had our annual Youth Talent Show last month. Such fun! We had 7 performers/teams. The winners were a dance group called, "Lil Phunk." Very exciting and talented. Lots of hard work happened to put on the show. Everyone had a great time. 

Lil Phunk and our Judges

One of the acts wrote and performed a song she wrote especially for our YAB Co-Chair, Thomas...asking him to Prom. He said, "yes." It was cute. 

Serenade Leading to Prom Date

We also had a big "March is Red Cross Month" Event at The State House. I got to help out Lily with setting that up. All our team leaders gave presentations to Congressional Aides and a lot of our volunteers got a tour by one of the Senators. It was a productive and fun day.

Shawna, myself & Leighton (Dir of Disaster Services)

 

The Boston Marathon is next Monday. We have medical stations throughout the route. There isn't really anything for me to do with that. You have to be a medical person to volunteer. We don't do water stations so... I'll be at work doing my normal thing.

Daniel starts a new job on Friday. We are both very excited. His route is MA - NC and back every week. It's a shorter route and he's home 2 nights a week. Very excited doesn't begin to cover it.

So...together more, Yay!

Our stuff is still in Florida. We haven't had the time or room in the budget to grab it all yet. I think probably some time in the summer. Or after August when I get a permanent position. I'll be in FL for the McClelland Annual Gimper Weekend at the end of July (the week before my service is up). I really need to think about the logistics of flying down then renting a U-Haul and driving our stuff up and unloading it. Hmm...things to ponder.

Melissa moved to NYC at the end of March. Some of her stuff is still here but I'm about to move it into our storage room. She got in a car accident on the way here Monday evening. She's okay (neck brace and tail bone hurt), thankfully. So, the moral of the story is this:

I'll be cleaning and organizing and moving rooms! That shouldn't take too long since there really isn't any furniture to move! LOL. It'll be nice to get my kitchen all set up the way I want it. I've been looking online for storage and countertop solutions since I don't really have any. Seriously, I have this HUGE kitchen and practically zero cabinets or counter space. Guess who is going to make her Mommy and Daddy (lol) give her ideas when they visit later in the spring? THIS GIRL RIGHT HERE.

That's all the counter space I have!

Still loving it up here and the weather is about to finally get beautiful again. The kayaks are in The Charles and The Hubway has the rental bike stations out and CBC has opened their patio back up. These are CLEAR signs that Spring is coming. I need to get a bike and see if I can handle the stress of biking on Mass Ave and through Cambridge. It would probably be equivalent to taking The T as far as time goes. Stephen said he'd go with me to try it out. He bikes to and from work every day.   

Kayaks!

Okay, I've just gone on and on and on about...well, nothing in particular, I guess. I don't ever feel like I have a lot going on but I guess I really do. Everyone have a great week!

Much love,

Jini